So, it's obvious to my friends that I'm insecure my mum saying that I shouldnt drive or learn nursing because of my add has created a believe that I am inferior to others and I can't do things because of add. The thing is my mum has damaged my mindset and made me insecure and feel like I need out side validation to make it. I've felt desperate for a boyfriend because that will make me feel like I have a purpose. My mother and my sister has damaged me there reeinforcement telling me I need disability payments has made me think that I am disabled and as a result it has made me loss confidence and motivation. I need to stop letting my family tell me I'm useless and to not do things because of add because there holding me back and damaging my self esteem. My dad doesn't believe I have any problems that make me inferior he was happy when I study maybe I should listen to people that believe in me and disregard those that don't. I need my own validation I need to know that I'm able to work because there damaging me.