I have my 20min appointment set to talk to G on August 4th. I'm super nervous. L says she trust him and it will be a good fit. I've never had an individual male T. And since it will only be temporary and he is a male, I don't know what questions to ask. Any ideas are welcomed!

So far I know from L:
He's empathetic and good at emotional presence. Will not just suggest skills when in a crisis. Does not judge me for BPD diagnosis. Understands my history and current situation with SI and SH. And allows between session emails and 20min phone calls w/o charge.

I don't know what else to ask or expect. I know I'll be talking to L about this as well, but I wanted to get some input from the wise forums.