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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
It sounds like your wife does notice you are trying.
Women in their 50’s can lose their labido and they can also experience a thining of the lining in the area where a man satisfies himself. It becomes increasingly uncomfortable. There is also a decline in her estrogen levels that contribute to sexual desires. This varies in women but it can become a depressing problem and also deeply embarrassing to discuss. Men can also experience lowering testosterone levels that can contribute to ED.
When things change that change how a person engages sexually, it doesn’t mean they are punishing their spouse by not engaging in sex.
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Very good points on this. I think, more than anything, her diminished desire was due to her feeling like she had to raise an adult child at one point in our relationship.
For me, my libido is as high as ot ever was and i work very hard to keep it at bay and focus on music.