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Originally Posted by jesyka
So, should I not be honest then? I’m confused. Should I lie to not hurt people’s feelings? I understand that I shouldn’t tell people that they look fat or that I don’t like their hair cut, but do I really need to lie about everything?
I don’t want to have a fake relationship with people.I don’t want people to lie to me either.
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No I never said you should lie about everything. Of
course not.
Human interactions are intricate and complicated so sometimes you need to speak up snd sometimes you don’t need to. The tricks are to learn what course of action is appropriate in what circumstances. Sometimes being honest is dangerous and unsafe. And sometimes it’s plain rude. And sometimes it’s just fine. It depends. People aren’t simple
If you want to improve your relationship with people, then you might want to make some changes. If you don’t, then it’s fine, just leave it how it is.
What’s confusing is you ask for suggestions but then respond in a rather abrupt manner that you do everything right and don’t need to learn better ways. Then why do you ask?