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Originally Posted by Nammu
Perhaps it would help if I clarified. I was responding to the post directly above me in which you stated your friend called your boundaries intolerant. And suggested compassion for those instances. The two books I recommended were both suggestions to your multiple posts about conflict with people. The first is a book about life skills. Something you say nobody ever taught you. The second is more how you seem to respond to suggestions by lashing out and puffing up. Kindness is not a weakness.
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My former friend said that when I tried to set boundaries that I was being intolerant. I thanked you for both suggestions.
How did I lash out exactly? I only said that I didn’t understand why I should show compassion towards bullies. That is my opinion. How is that lashing out?
Apparently a misunderstanding was involved. And no, kindnesses is not a sign of weakness. Just because I disagreed with you on something does not mean that I was lashing out.