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Default Jul 20, 2023 at 12:00 PM
 
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
I just say what I think.
And that’s maybe where the problem lies. Again there are times to communicate what you think and there are times when you shouldn’t. Always saying what you think turns people off.

To quote Frasier Crane “it’s acceptable to have unexpressed thoughts”. Unexpressed thoughts help people to be socially civil. As civilized people we need to be able to hold every thought we have.

And I am a blunt person so I recognize it’s not always easy. But if you insist on always saying what you think and always be honest, and the result is having troublesome relationships with people then you have choices to make.
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