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JustTotallyLost
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Default Jul 20, 2023 at 12:09 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
I gotta say that when I read your wife’s statements about feeling like she raised you where you could use what you learned on someone else hit home with me. I think a lot of women feel that way.
I see that now and i carry so much shame and guilt for her feeling like she had to raise me.

But, ive done everything to try and hold on, all the while she is saying that "you need let go and we need to move on as individuals."

I served in the military. And when we were assigned to a duty, we remained there until we were properly relieved.

I feel like i kept my promise to love her, protect her and always be there, and now, i feel like she is telling me "you are relieved from your obligations" and that is my signal that its time to move on.

5 years won't change anything. Id be a fool to sit here in California and wait by the phone for her call.
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