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Originally Posted by divine1966
There’s no way to answer why she’s not interested. You can’t really answer that question. She’s a stranger so there is simply no way to know. I don’t believe you need to say a word to her, you should just stop contacting her. See if she contacts you first, that’s how you’ll know.
Personally if I ran out of gas I’d wait for AAA or I have Chevy assistance. It might take longer. But that’s what people do. I’d not ask strangers to drive me around. I pay all these services so I can use them. You pay AAA so might as well use it.
I think you’d really benefit from making lists of things to check daily. If you tend to forget things, you need to have a list. Do you not have warning of “low gas” on your dashboard. It gives you warning several times before you go on empty.
Yes perhaps she was taken aback being asked to drive you around even though you have AAA. Maybe she thought you two just met and you already ask for things, in general you’d need to know someone longer. Who knows. Of course she agreed to help and was polite. Most people would be polite and civil under any circumstances, but it doesn’t mean anything more than that. It’s not an act. It’s expectation of civility. It’s not an indication of necessarily liking anyone. She doesn’t really know you.
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OK, I’ll wait for her to contact me then. I’m starting to feel like she might be giving me a ‘polite’ brush off instead of just ignoring my texts or blocking me.
I didn’t call AAA because the place she was at was around the corner so I didn’t think I was inconveniencing her. She didn’t seem to mind. We would’ve had to reschedule our get together if I had to wait for AAA.
She really did find the situation to be funny. She said that happened to her many many times before. That actually never ever happened to me ever. I knew that I needed to get gas. I thought that I had enough to get by. I was wrong apparently.
I’d rather have her not respond to my texts instead of giving me possible false hope if this is what is going on with the possible ‘polite’ brush off. I’m terrible at picking up on hints.
The fact that she already flaked out on me 3 times is a red flag I think. It’s a pattern. Either she’s a flaky person or she is blowing me off.
Sometimes I think I might be autistic. I should get diagnosed for that sometime. My dad is definitely autistic. So I might be autistic too but slightly more functional than he is in a way.