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Originally Posted by divine1966
She said she’ll call you. She didn’t. It doesn’t matter why.. So you shouldn’t keep contacting her. Don’t worry why people do what they do. Focus on why you do what you do, why you keep pursuing someone who doesn’t contact you and canceled on you 3 times in a row.
I’d say after someone ran out of gas once, they should make major changes in how they run their life. The fact that it happened to her many many times says a lot about her. She is a mess. She finds it funny. It’s kind of sad, not funny
You spend significant amount of time analyzing total strangers, you’ve met her twice. Who cares why she’s doing this or that. You’ll never have an answer. Focus on improvement in your own life. Don’t worry about random people
PS figure out with your milleage how far you can drive with low gas sign. Yours likely has been on for a long time. On average you can drive another 50 miles. And it’s bad for your car to drive on near empty tank. Fill up when you get close to getting empty, before even having a warning.. Don’t wait
When you see your psychiatrist next time, ask for evaluation. You’ll have to pay for it though as you have no insurance but he could diagnose you
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I won’t contact her again. I talked to my only real friend today & she said that this woman id not my friend & tgat she sounds bipolar. She said been badly mabused before too.
I’ll delete & block her number. 3 times with zero explanation is to much.
I should’ve been mire careful. That’s never happened to me before.. My friend said she doesn’t respect me. Maybe you’re right about her being a mess. She’s had issues with loser men & had major issues with her ex. One of those being robbing her of over half a muklion dollars in her account. How the hell does that happen?
And it is weird to hiw she ran out of gas a lot in the past. She actually said tgat her ex siphoned gas out of cars in the past & I said why, was he broke or cheap & she said both. It was funny but weird LoL.
Still it’s a red flag. It’s not her fault, but still, weird. I know that I shouldn’t dwell on this, but I’m an INTJ & I can’t help but analyze things. I’m introspective.
I keep thinking that part of this is my fault. I try to figure people out to try to avoid making the same mistakes again.
That’s why.