I’m not an intense person. I respect other people boundaries. I’m friendly, polite and very honest with my feelings. What I mean is that I’m not a person who absorb other people’s time and I’m very respectful and compassionate.
I do for them whatever they need. I’m a person who is able to keep a secret. Maybe I’m not fun but I’m funny enough to talk and chat about many things. But, I barely receive an invitation from these people, who are basically my relatives. My close relatives. I don’t understand it.
I rarely receive a: How are you going?
It’s hard. They always knew about my problems. What about a “how do you feel?”. It’s always me the one who have to take the initiative and it’s not easy for me. I learnt too soon that my opinion didn’t count and another thing I learnt is “don’t bother”.