Thread: I'm so mad at myself for this
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Old Jul 22, 2023, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Molinit View Post
The relationship is over. He doesn’t owe you responses to communications you initiate.

You don’t owe him anything either.

I don’t know what to suggest for seeing him places-if you keep going to those music-related events you’re probably going to see him.
Given that he's responded to every message of mine for the last nine months, this is a surprise and I expected him to at the very least, congratulate me on my achievement. That would have been the KIND thing to do. But why should I expect KINDNESS from someone who is abusive?

I am not going to completely cease an activity I am very passionate about just so I don't have to run into him.
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