In reading your thoughts about your worth? Don’t share details about your relationship with your wife with women. No woman needs to know you are staying with your wife for health insurance. If you share anything, just say that you and your wife want different life styles. Share that your wife prefers to live somewhat off the grid and you prefer an active social life. That’s being honest and it’s the truth.

Don’t put yourself down with the wrong side of the tracks saga, you should not be carrying that anymore, that’s just heavy baggage you don’t need to carry around anymore.