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Default Jul 23, 2023 at 04:17 PM
 
No! You need to be careful not to over share. You don’t want a mommy, your way too old for that. Also by sharing your hurts and weaknesses you give too much power away to the other person. Toxic people like to pretend to care and help with your load, but often it’s to make room for what they want you to carry for them instead of your ex.

This is a support forum and you are anonymous so it’s ok to share. Be wiser out in the world where others can play you.

It’s ok to talk cars etc. but don’t bring in your problems. Don’t be too trusting as toxic people know how to stoke ego for their own gains. 😉
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