My husband told me he was going to send a message to my sister when we get back home next week from our vacation. It would be a respectful message laying out everything so that she'll hopefully see that she needs to change.

That if my sister doesn't back down, or if she pushes back, he'd share publicly about all of this on social media.

I don't support this method because it is within the family. I'm not confrontational yet he can be when people don't give him the respect he deserves.

He keeps saying that I need to trust in what he's doing and that it's all going to make sense in time.

What do I say and do to convince him not to give in to these impulses?

I'm scared people will hate us (her friends, my family, our nieces) and our marriage will be done.


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