And, I had a coaching session with a life coach that I met on one of my FB narc abuse support groups. I paid $100 for an hour of coaching. To my chagrin, she talked a lot about her own issues, as though it were a mutual coaching session! I was severely disappointed. She is far from healed herself and is hiding from her ex husband, who had threatened to kill her! There was very little that I got out of the session, except to start writing a gratitude and self love journal entry each morning to rebuild my self esteem. I felt like I had to extend my sympathy to her in her own situation and she derailed the conversation several times throughout the call to talk about her issues. OY! Disappointing! I will not hire her again.