I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve had that happen to me too. Has she generally not offered much support or not? Maybe she should overwhelmed now or maybe whe is just selfish & is accusing you of being ‘needy’ in order to avoid dealing with your problems.

If she never listens to you, then no, you are not being needy. Whatever you do, don’t talk to her about personal issues.

Keep things light with her. Some people can’t or don’t want to listen to other people’s personal problems.

Tell her how you feel & to not say stuff like that to ypu again as it hurts your feelings.