awww sweet cakes... i'm sorry.
sometimes it happens that the moods, etc are mismatched, or maybe she had gas... whatever, it just means it was her day to push and you weren't ready... chitty deal for you in the end and it hurts. My T has this expression "striking the iron while it's still hot." Ugh... %#@&#! gag me. It never ever works when he does it... but what he is trying to do is keep the progress going (when i actually make any).
you obviously trust her because you know she cares, etc... and that is HUGE... i don't know what your trust level was like when you started but i would think that is likely a sign of progress... maybe she felt she could push because you've been making progress...
im betting she cares so much and worries about you that she got a little ahead of herself... wanting to help. Sometimes their efforts are too much for us... T says that sometimes he pushes me and sees that it was too much or too soon but he doesn't have a guidebook.
try to take an objective look at the things she did say.. and look for the parts that you *can* address right now instead of the whole enchilada all at once.
hope you feel better soon... sending much love