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Old Jul 26, 2023, 08:10 PM
JustTotallyLost JustTotallyLost is offline
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
A lot of people learn the hard way that choosing a parter based on our own needs and feelings can turn into a huge disappointment. This gives a partner power they may not deserve or are worthy of.

It’s actually a mistake to be “in love with love”. When people go down this road they end up hurt because it keeps them from hearing what a partner is saying to them
Any future partner will be chosen based on business compatibility, common interests and goals, and some chemistry.

But if i had to choose, I'd rather be with someone who found me reasonably attractive, but respected me, then see what develops.