19 years in October. Yes, have gone through a lot & have totally healed after moving to Ky & leaving my bad marriage in Calif. Life is actually better than it ever was because in my wonderful small town therapy I learned skills to be functional after living around dysfunctional parents & husband for 54 years. PC / MSF a good place to communicate about issues. Therapy was a good place to perfect the skills along with the small community I moved to. Life is good, still come here once in awhile