You asked what I’d do. If I always initiated and they never did and always had reasons to not see me, I’d stop initiating. I am not saying I’d be dramatic and confront them or block and delete. I’d just stop initiating. I am not saying my opinion is right. I just see no point in telling random people that I want this or that from them. Things are the way they are. If people don’t contact me, I can’t make them.

My bad about being kicked out from a bar. It wasn’t a friend but a chiropractor. I just see “shock value” sharing on your part and it made he wonder why you share that kind of stuff with strangers. But again I might be wrong about the whole thing .