I'm not sure where the line is vs sharing and over sharing either.

Most people who have complained about me have said I under share. But I guess there are probably some who have complained about me and/or rejected me who claimed I over shared.

When getting to know someone new it can be hard to know how much to share. And even having known someone for years, or having thought we knew them.....it can suddenly go wrong. Especially if that someone happens to be an abuser

I find many people VERY confusing.

And there are many selfish people in this world. Too ****ing bad my parental units told me over and over again how ''selfish'' I was. NO. Just NO.

I'm sure I'm not the first person who has told you there ARE good people in this world. I have found some.

And I think you will find some too.

If you continue working on YOU.

Have you checked out the Self Esteem forum here yet?

I think someone mentioned this in another post.

I posted there today, a few replies.

And I can relate to being targeted by insecure bullies who try to mess with people. I think it was me who said they are insecure.

The bullies who targeted me at primary school were all quite ugly girls. I hadn't really thought of that before.

My mother said they were ''jealous'' too. That was not helpful. I even told another girl that. Maybe the bullies are jealous. (I was only 8) Big mistake. She was another bully and said something else horrible. They did other vile stuff to me too

In years of therapy, I didn't mention that. And he didn't listen. He was another ''bully''.... and that is putting it politely.