Thanks for your answers! It's a great question isn't it. I'll give it a shot:

My parents, I believe, did a good job raising me. I mostly see the world as a prosocial, cooperative, fruitful place. And alongside establishing that healthy world view, I was raised in an environment that encouraged confidence and such. As I get older I appreciate this more and more.


However, with the lights out it's less dangerous. But even so, tapping into that mindset at a later age, merely having it be accessable helps a lot.

Q: what aspects of other people do you tend to judge too harshly, and what aspects do you give people too much grace on, in your opinion?