Are you noticing how she constantly makes excuses for attacking your self esteem? Your feelings are not important, it’s her needs that have to take president and this makes you feel unstable and when that happens she gets the control.

She states that this soul connect is about her healing and your supposed to be hurt. This is the very root of how a narcissist sees things. Their power and gain comes from hurting others. That’s insane! But that’s who they are and they don’t want you to see clearly. Have you ever seen the classic movie gaslight?