You got married in December, but, if I understand the situation correctly, you've been with him for a number of years.

How have you two resolved, or gotten past, disagreements in the past?


I agree that discussing the situation on social media would be a very poor idea.

Fortunately, he is proposing to act in a week. This gives him time to rethink, one hopes, his plan of warring with family members on social media.

In the past, what (if anything) have you found to be effective in helping him get past destructive impulses?


I'm really sorry that you are so scared, and hurting so much, right now.