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Originally Posted by divine1966
But when you repeatedly state that you want relationship with her even though not only you were abused, but also she doesn’t want relationship with you and you can’t force her. When you tell us you want this woman, you pretty much telling us that you like to be abused. You can’t expect us to agree to this course of action.
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I think this is the trauma bond. He knows he's trauma bonded to her, and it's a long process to work through it.
Maybe I'm off the mark here, but it seems like maybe he's struggling with the feelings that go with the trauma bond more than he actually wants her back?