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Jul 29, 2023, 09:54 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,078
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If she'd died I'd get a lot of support from the people around me.
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If she had died, you would get support because you wouldn't be saying:
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I keep wanting to tell her I love her, that I miss her, and that I'm open to trying again.
If it wasn't for the kids, I'd have never stopped chasing her.
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You would be forced to deal with the reality that she is gone & process the grief & go through it without the drams of still wanting to chase her. Gone is gone but if you are unable or unwilling to accept that, this is something that needs serious work in therapy if you really want to heal from this
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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