@Rose76 - so, here's my delima.

I get reasonable attention from women. Im almost constantly touched by women (like light tap on shoulder or light tap on my arm) and im uber-hygenic, so even the 25 y/o barista at Starbucks tells me i smell good.

Recently, i had a divorced, late 50's woman, with a killer appearance, (very Raquel Welch-y) give me lots of arm touching during our professional interactions, then invented the excuse to have coffee with me in public.

After some small talk, she said, "Uh, ya, anyways, i don't know your relationship ship status and i dont wanna step on any toes, but if you are ever looking for a woman to just lay down and let you enjoy her, I'd definitely be down for some discreet fun."

Now, her looks make her dangerous for me. I was able to thank her and politely say that i feel like I'm currently too "spun out" in my head after a breakup that im afraid to involve anyone else's feelings because i dont wanna hurt anyone.

While listening, she pulled her pendant chain up into her mouth and kinda started playing with the locket, just running it back and forth across the chain. When i finished speaking she ssid, "the only feelings i need you to hurt are the ones between my legs," to which she smiled provocatively and laughed coyly.

Now, in my mind, I'm rejoicing because she is hot on another level. In my heart, i still feel comitted to my wife.

I also thought women were largely totally finished with sexual desire by their 50's???

This stuff is hard to resist.