It’s not the music that is to blame. It’s more about how much time it takes and how it takes away from her being the center of your attention in the way SHE wants. It could have been absence due to being a fisherman or a politician or sales that requires travel and being away from home. It can be a police officer that also takes up time where the man is more involved with law enforcement than the home relationship. Even doctors can experience this where they might be on call and it takes over and always has to come first.

A woman can start to feel lonely and expected to be intimate when HE has time like she is on call for HIS needs. This is what tends to create problems in relationships. In my time reading or watching biographies about different individuals their relationships tended to fail due to time taken up due to careers where a partner was left alone a lot.