Personally I am angry at the person who sent that picture. It would not surprise me if it is a friend of your wife’s. It’s not something a caring kind person would do. It doesn’t surprise me that it triggered you into feeling very down. I know it would affect me that way.

I do know what it’s like to deal with an alcoholic and not know what their mood will be. I know how narcissistic these individuals can be and how they turn things around and play the victim. I have dealt with their alcoholic blow ups and blackouts. I have experienced others believe them and enable them. Little selfish self centered whiny babies that have the maturity of a child. Yes hanging out at bars picking up guys to use them for their warped supply. They blow through money on binges then act like the poor victim when things sour.

In all honesty you are better off that this beast is out of the home. It’s better for your children too. Your wife is NOT a good person, she is selfish. She prefers to go clubbing and drinking and abandon her family leaving her children and hard working husband traumatized and confused.

It’s heartbreaking and I am sorry. This is not your fault, it’s ALL on HER.