I went to my friend's farm yesterday out of state for a social gathering. A mutual friend of my ex was inquiring about my dating status. When I last ran into this man, he inquired back then about my dating status as well. I have the feeling that he is talking to my ex and is spying on me for him. I also ran into another mutual friend of my ex, a woman and her husband, who never goes to these particular gatherings at the farm. This is the very first time in years that I have seen her there, so I was wondering why she was there and if my husband has asked her to spy on me as well. I know I sound paranoid, but I still think that somehow my ex was tracking me at the concert a week ago,. and I wouldn't put it past him to send feelers out to see what I am up to. It's unnerving feeling like you're being spied on and watched.