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Originally Posted by divine1966
I don’t think you should give up what you like to do at all, but that’s just the price to pay: running into him and his friends at concerts and gatherings. Obviously it’s the same crowd because even when you go out of state you still run into his friends.
It doesn’t mean you need to give up on going places. If it doesn’t upset you then you should keep going but if it upsets and bothers you enough that you worry for days that he tracks your phone or that he got his friends to stalk you, then there’s a choice to make.
It’s not easy. Even in the most amicable divorces running into exes and ex’s friends isn’t fun. No one likes it. Most people would rather not if they can help it.
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This is my social life at the moment. I’m certainly not going to stop going! Yes these things are bothersome but I’m not giving up my whole social life to become a total recluse and isolated from everyone just to avoid some uncomfortable encounters.