So, last night, my wife told me she and our 19 y/o daughter no longer "feels safe" with me in the house and asked that i leave immediately. Her adult Son was there (whom i really like and respect) and kind of helped mediate.

Their claims of not feeling safe made no sense whatsover, but it hinged around our 19 y/o daughter storing her dog's food in my room, then knocking for access to the food. I apparently said enter in a half awake half asleep state and jumped up out of the bed wearing only boxer briefs and socks.

Since our daughter has a past history of physical/sexual abuse, at the hands of her biological father, she claimed (according to her mother and her brother) she was "startled" and began to have "flashbacks" that triggered her.

I immediately blocked my wife and daughter from all avenues of contact and the Son and I agreed that he would be the point of contact going forward.

He volunteered to take over my portion of the mortgage, so i am free to access my funds, but he did ask if i would make my customery $1,600 portion of the mortgage payment to give him time to allocate funds.

The wife announced that she was terrified that i would try to take her home and pension.

On the one hand, i felt this last payment unreasonable, but then i considered the positive political effect of perhaps "reducing" the intensity of the situation by "purchasing" some artificial peace, or good will, so i am still exploring that option.

I'm pulling in favors from friends to get out of the home today/tonight before things escalate any further.