I’m not sure if she is doing the slow fade. Her & her husband recently took me to dinner for my birthday. So if she was doing the slow fade, then why do that plus get me a gift as well?

She has always been like this in the 5 or more years I have known her. She has gottrn worse with these vague wishy washy answers though.

It’s weird. She is so bad that she let herself be used by this former mooch friend who I wrote about on hete awhile back.

She did finally say no to paying for her meal once. So maybe she has a very difficult time saying no directly. Why is it so hard for some people to just say no?

I have never gotten upset at her for saying no.