I know it’s a control thing. He often threatens to leave me or take my name off the joint account almost everytime he gets upset with me.

It’s extremely upsetting. He told me that I’d get nothing at all, not even my used car if he leaves me or if I leave him.

Why would he do that to me after being married to me for almost 30 years? That’s just evil!

I have nowhere to go literally. I can’t stay with my parents as I’ve been banned from the house by my psyho sister who lives there. I doubt that any friend of mine will care enough about me to let me stay at their place for long too.

Only one did for a few days years ago, but then her dad told her to not get involved as my husband could come after her. So she probably won’t help me anymore.

I live in a 50/50 state, Ca. btw. I wouldn’t be able to afford a lawyer without his help, so I’d be screwed. He is sick & vile! I hate him but I’m stuck because of finances.