I think that I have but I can’t remember what they said. I do remember that one former people pleasing friend told me that it’s’rude’ to be direct & that it’s rude to say no as it hurts other people’s feelings.

She was so extreme that she said I was rude & that I ruined a game & offended her friends by not wanting to play a hard boring strategy game that she nguiltvtripped & manipulated me into playing.

She told me that I needed to play these games to ‘fir in’ her game group ugh! Rude!

I don’t understand how I could ruin a stupid game that way. I think she was trying to control me.

It was beyond ridiculous. She was obsessed with her games.

I’ll probably get some lame wishy washy answer like ‘I’ve bern busy, I’m going through a lot, etc. I’ll do that in person next time.