Jay showed up with a new woman last night, and I got pretty upset. I was upset that he didn't tell me anything about it over the last few weeks while I was foolishly texting him and confiding in him about various issues. It took me by a complete surprise. I texted him when I left. I told him it was thoughtless and uncaring, and I did not say nice things. Then I blocked him and unfriended him. If he can't respect me enough to inform me ahead of time, when he knows I could show up at the venue, then I don't want to be friends with him.

My tolerance level for any kind of BS is very very low.