I am sorry you are hurting.

If you were just texting chatting as friends, I am not sure he had to tell you. He could but how he’d even approach it? It’s not like you chatting in hopes to rekindle romance. Does he know you have feelings for him? If yes then he’s a jerk texting with you. If not, he might think you’d not care who he brings to bars. And if you chat as friends why can’t he bring a woman to a concert also as friends. Not like he married her. Plus sometimes when people just start dating they don’t want to tell others. If he’s even dating. He is a bit of a player so who knows what’s he doing with these women. It might be nothing.

And if I became friends with ex and all of a sudden he started informing me who he’s dating, I’d thought he was trying to make me jealous. What for. Id be like why you telling me that. I understand if your feelings for him are still fresh. But then why text him and be friends? Might not be a good idea to be friends with exes. It almost never works out

I know I am probably beating a dead horse but it’s sad to see you being upset running to all these people. Ex husband ex dates ex friends ex boyfriends. If it’s upsetting you, you might want to make changes. Are these venues worth this aggravation? Could you ar least take a break?

And even though friendships between men and women are possible, it doesn’t seem to work out quite often. Befriending these men just isn’t getting you anywhere. You need more women. Preferably not in that venue