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Default Re: I Think I Learned Too Late:
We talked a little tonight. I changed the oil on her car for her. She said that she is just devastated because she had hoped we would stay together forever, but that our differences in both communication and comprehension made it impossible.
She is very blunt and hurtful with her words and she says i "sugar coat" things, which is lying, according to her, and she is morally opposed to that.
She also said that while she did encourage the job at the law firm, she now sees ot as a "vicious" job that she wants no part of. The fact that i am so good in this arena is more proof that we are not a good fit.
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Here she is again attacking your ego. She is also using a broad brush of negatives when it comes to different Law Practices. These different law firms do have certain events as part of networking and doing business. In order to practice you have to have clients and you also need to have the ability to interact with other lawyers and law firms. Lawyers actually do have to negotiate with each other. Not everything goes to trial or is like what is shown or portrayed on TV series like “Suits”.
Depending on the practice and size firm there can be some fake type drama. Yet this is something that happens in many different businesses. Just because someone passes the bar and can practice law doesn’t mean they can successfully practice. Lawyers have to learn how to sell themselves and build a name for themselves. So part of that is social events.
There can be some materialistic fan fair in terms of cars and attire aka designer clothes. But that tends to be part of fake impress packaging. Again it depends on the firm and what kind of law is being practiced