Just wondering because where we are supposed to be. Some of us, aren’t included in a simple shyness or a social phobia but we are beyond. These avoidant traits are in our personality. If not, I would be cured. As long as I see the possibility to go deep into a relation, I better go away. So, what’s this? Someone here is gonna to stop us from writing here only because we are not pure avoidants? No way.