I don't hate you either. But people do get upset when they are called names or given labels (even though they might be true.) Folks are entitled to their own opinions. And there is a lot of hatred and viciousness in our world, even worse in the last few years. It doesn't help to confront them, I've found.
I hope your experiences here are better. We have all kinds of folks--and even forums and groups for many of them. Here's the 'address' of our LGBT+ group:
https://mysupportforums.org/lgbtq-support/
Lots of like-minded people!