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Old Aug 05, 2023, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Hooking up all in itself is ok if that’s what both people want. Mutually agreed upon casual encounters could be ok. But honestly I think most decent men wouldn’t be suggesting hook ups to women. They’d not want men offering it to their sisters/daughters/nieces so they’d not do this to women. Maybe in their college years when very young and partying. Not as grown ups. Not in 30s/40s/50s/60s. That boat sailed.
I don't think Jay is all that decent after all. I think he's a bit of a player.

I think he's a wanderer too. He quit his steady and stable full-time job. Since then, he's mowing lawns and doing lawn and home maintenance for his neighborhood. He wants to move to the Caribbean to be a boat captain. So just do it already. He's in limbo, with no goals or any real direction. He's aimless. We're the complete opposite. I am very goal oriented. I don't stagnate and I cannot stand being in a limbo state.

He would have driven me crazy, between the long lapses in communication, his non-committal attitude, and his limbo state of being, I would have gone bonkers.
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