What you think of her--that she gaslights you, that she is passive aggressive, that she manipulates you, that she uses work or health as an excuse for everything--might very well be perceived by her, and considered to be attacks.

I never called her any of thise things in the yext aside frim the gaslighting. I tild her that U mever called her an awful person. She accused me of that numerous times. She was just upset at me for being honest & making stuff up. I didn’t say that though. I simply told her I never called her a horrible person which is the truth.

It seems that you and she have different expectations as to what a friendship should be. Why do you want to be friends with her? Her understanding of friendship consistently gets you very upset.