Tooter that was brilliant, and not only makes sense, but is the quintessential example of what we all do when longing masquerades as love inside of us. The two different activities move in opposite directions and are a mess when mistaken for eachother. lol Yes?

You said it so well Tooter. I'd like to set your post on fire on the page so everyone will read it. No one can read what you said and not see themselves at some point in their life. Some who read it will see themselves for the first time in that same predicament. You described it in such pure honesty, everyone will know what you meant, and know it in themselves too. Thank you so much for that brave post.