It’s not your fault you are being abused by men. I am just saying not every men is this way. You have abusive husband. He doesn’t represent all male population. Not every husband is abusive. Other terrible stories about horrid men you encounter were mostly drunk bar goers. Those should be avoided at all costs and most decent men don’t hang out in bars drinking. They don’t represent all population either. But certainly it’s not your fault you are mistreated by men.

Guy like rude chiropractor is a jerk but he’s not jerk because he’s a man. He’s a rude human being