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Originally Posted by jesyka
This guy is 31 but his attitude is like that of a teenager!
Other than this, he’s OK. He does a good job & he’s affordable.
Why would he treat me like this? It’s rude & unprofessional! My friend said he’s a jerk & that he obviously doesn’t respect me. She said that I can be naive & he probably looked down on me for oversharing a personal story with him.
She’s probably right about that. Still, he shouldn’t be that rude to a client.
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That was not my reaction, in terms of his age. When I read your story, I assumed that the guy was older than you, that he was making a patronizing, condescending remark and that you were hurt specifically by that. I was very surprised to learn that he is so young.
I cannot comment substantively as I have never been in such a situation, but I am wondering in what context you decided to tell him the story about being kicked out of two bars. You must have been on really close terms with him for such a conversation to have taken place in the first place. It is not something one normally shares with service providers, even when they practice healing arts (unless, of course, you are in treatment for alcohol misuse). What had the two of you been talking about before you decided to tell him about being kicked out of two bars?