I heard from my ex husband the other day. He wrote a lengthy email. I happened to find it (he is filtered) because I was checking that folder for something else.

Naturally, he did not even congratulate me on getting a job and a raise. And of course, he only talked all about how HE feels and how the divorce is impacting HIM. There was nothing in there about how I feel or what I may be going through, except for "I really hope you are doing well." It was yet another sob story from him about being miserable without me and about how he can never love or be attracted to anyone else. I call BS. It's all just him hoovering me and trying to win me back over.