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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam
That was not my reaction, in terms of his age. When I read your story, I assumed that the guy was older than you, that he was making a patronizing, condescending remark and that you were hurt specifically by that. I was very surprised to learn that he is so young.
I cannot comment substantively as I have never been in such a situation, but I am wondering in what context you decided to tell him the story about being kicked out of two bars. You must have been on really close terms with him for such a conversation to have taken place in the first place. It is not something one normally shares with service providers, even when they practice healing arts (unless, of course, you are in treatment for alcohol misuse). What had the two of you been talking about before you decided to tell him about being kicked out of two bars?
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The story I told was obviously a mistake. I overshared. The point is that he was very unprofessional & rude to continue to make those comments about not getting into trouble in front of his staff & his other clients. M
It’s highly inappropriate.
I ignored him at first but he didn’t get the hint or he didn’t care. I had enough. When I said whatever, he laughed loudly.
Then he tried not to laugh when I finally told him to stop making those remarks. He had a huge smirk on his face.
Yesterday he behaved. I should’ve spoken up sooner. I just made a mistake. He should’ve have done that. Why would he be so rude & disrespectful?