I agree with you on many accounts Jesyka. It’s hard to find good people to hang out with. I don’t necessarily think that people are self absorbed though but rather that people have their lives. I agree with Tisha that being in a bad marriage and not liking company of one’s spouse is lonely. I don’t believe one needs to be attached to their spouse. It’s healthy to have your own life but it’s good to have that balance. Sadly not when you are in a bad marriage. It’s actually less lonely to be single. I hope this situation with your husband could improve