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Old Aug 10, 2023, 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Lots of reasons were listed here earlier. Either it is an issue with her and has nothing to do with you, or she is putting you off because she has some issue with you. You could have an honest talk with her about it and ask her, but those conversations never go well IME.
She did have that conversation and her friend got very upset. She was trying to explain that she’s busy but Jesyka believes it’s just an excuse. I think on paper it sounds like such conversations should happen but in reality it sounds like it’s a disaster every time.

I see this conversation with a romantic partner trying to figure out if he’s into you and why isn’t he more interested and maybe we should break up. I don’t envision such conversation with a friend.