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Originally Posted by eskielover
Why would you tell something like that to someone that provides you a service in the first place. Seriously that kind of information ISN'T the kind of thing that makes people respect you . If you meant it to be a funny experience that is exactly how he took it & then you didn't like the results of what you did. Actions & words ALWAYS have consequences. We need to think about that before we share with people in general.
People DON'T have mind reading capabilities so to expect him to read your mind when you gave no response or said "whatever" is a problem on your part. You complain about others not being direct....you were NOT being direct until you finally said please stop it.
Given what you said about your "bar" night I probably would have responded in the same way when you left after hearing that story. It puts you in the light of "someone who makes choices that gets them into trouble" & people don't respect that. You don't want people to see you in that way then don't tell them things that make them see you that way. Think before you say something like that because there will ALWAYS be consequences whether you like them or not & it may just be a silent thinking much less of you without saying anything or a response like your Chiropradtor did. You are as responsible as he is for what happened but you never seem like you are ever willing to hold yourself accountable but sure love to "should" everyone else when you don't like how they respond to you
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I understand that. My point is that he was wrong for reacting to me in a manner that was rude & disrespectful AFTER I told him to stop.
He should not be holding back laughter. That is NOT an appropriate way to treat a client. Thst is the only slip up I made with him.
Yes, I shouldn’t have said that & I should’ve said something sooner. HE is the professional & HE shpuld NOT be smirking like a stupid teenager when someone is being serious about a boundary violation.
Why is that not being addressed?